Just got engaged? Congratulations! While you soak up the joy and excitement, the thought of planning a wedding might feel both thrilling and a little overwhelming. Where do you begin? Should you book the venue or the photographer first?
Whether you're ready to dive into the details or prefer to enjoy the engagement bubble a bit longer, this ultimate month-by-month checklist will guide you every step of the way — from big bookings to small personal touches.
So, without further ado... let the wedding planning begin!
12 Months To Go
Get Engagement Ring Insurance
Your engagement ring is a symbol of love — so it’s worth protecting. Now’s the time to get quotes or check if it can be added to your home contents policy. Most plans cover accidental damage, theft, or loss of diamonds and precious stones, giving you peace of mind.
Set a Wedding Budget
For most couples, setting a wedding budget is crucial. Start by determining how much you comfortably want to spend on your wedding, who is funding it, and what aspects are essential. Start allocating funds to different aspects. Using an Excel spreadsheet or a wedding planner book is a great way to keep track of costs along the way.
Planning something more intimate? A smaller wedding can be just as beautiful - and more budget-friendly!
Identify the three most important elements of your dream wedding - whether it’s the dress, the food, the venue, or the photography- and allocate your time and budget accordingly.
Make a Guest List
Making a guest list early will give you an indication of numbers and influence your choice of venue. Before you invite everyone that you and your fiancé know, consider your budget and how many guests you can realistically afford to invite. If your parents or your fiancé’s parents are involved in organising the guest list, it can be easy to get carried away, so you may need to negotiate and cut down until you’ve reached a number that you and your fiancé are happy with.
Hire a Wedding Planner
Thinking about hiring a wedding planner? Now’s a good time. While not essential, a planner can handle everything from venue scouting and vendor coordination to decor and on-the-day problem solving, easing your stress and saving time.
Choose a Wedding Date
When it comes to choosing a wedding date, every couple has different preferences. Some couples wish to get married on a specific day or time of year, while others determine their wedding date based on budget constraints, venue availability or the availability of key guests. Whether or not you have a specific wedding date in mind, having an idea of when you and your fiancé want to tie the knot will help when booking a venue and vendors.
Find a Venue
Picking the perfect wedding venue is crucial and often needs to be done well in advance, especially if you have a specific date or season in mind. Consider the capacity, location, availability, and type of venue that suits your theme. Visit a few options, and don’t hesitate to ask questions about catering, decoration limitations, and cancellation policies. For more inspiration, check out our handpicked list of some of the most beautiful venues in the UK to tie the knot. From historic homes and rustic reclaimed barns to urban gems and even secluded shoreline venues, there’s something to suit everyone.
Choose a Wedding Theme/Style
Explore different wedding themes and styles that reflect your personalities. Pinterest moodboards are great for inspiration! Your chosen style will influence your dress, flowers, decor, and more, so start gathering ideas now.
Purchase Wedding Insurance
For peace of mind, check if your venue requires liability insurance or consider wedding insurance yourself. It can cover unexpected cancellations or supplier issues, protecting your investment.
Select a Caterer
If your venue doesn’t offer catering, you’ll need to select a caterer. Choosing the right caterer is crucial for a memorable wedding feast, as food can make or break the event for your guests. Start by researching local caterers, reading reviews, and requesting sample menus. Confirm availability and ensure they can handle the size of your guest list. It’s also important to ensure that your caterer can accommodate any special dietary requirements for your guests, too.
11 Months To Go
Hire Vendors
Research and hire your team of suppliers, including a photographer, videographer, entertainment, band and DJ. Book them as early as you can, as popular suppliers tend to get booked up quickly. Remember to review portfolios, read customer reviews, and book consultations to ensure they align with your vision and expectations.
Secure an Officiant
If you’re planning on getting married in a place of worship or intend to have a civil ceremony, you’ll need to secure a minister, priest, or registrar to make it official.
Assemble Your Wedding Party
Deciding on who you want to stand by your side as you tie the knot is an important decision. Start asking your maid of honour, bridesmaids, flower girls, best man, groomsmen and ring bearers to be part of your wedding party. Many couples ask by surprising them with jewellery or cufflinks.
Secure Hotel Rooms for Guests
If you’re expecting international or out-of-town guests, securing a block of hotel rooms ensures they have a comfortable place to stay. Choose hotels at different price points close to your venue. Negotiate group rates to find the best deals. Provide these details early to your guests to facilitate their travel plans.
Start Wedding Dress Shopping
It’s time for one of the most exciting parts, which is wedding dress shopping! Begin browsing dress styles by scrolling through social media or reading bridal magazines. Research bridal boutiques in your area and schedule appointments. You may have a specific style in mind, but trying on different wedding dresses may surprise you! Saying ‘yes’ to the dress can take several weeks or months, so shopping early allows enough time to browse.
Top Tip:
Bridal appointments are such a special part of the journey - make it even more memorable by bringing along your mum, maid of honour, or close family members to share in the excitement and offer their honest, heartfelt opinions.
10 Months To Go
Send Out Save-the-Dates
Once your date and venue are confirmed, finalise your guest list and send out save-the-date cards. This is especially important for destination weddings or if many guests will be travelling to attend your wedding, as it allows them to make travel and accommodation arrangements.
Hire Transportation
To ensure you and your wedding party arrive at your wedding on time and in style, you may decide to hire wedding cars. Contact different car hire companies to compare prices and explore the options available. Consider your theme, number of people, and availability when hiring a wedding car.
Book Transportation for Guests
Ease your guests' experience by arranging transportation such as a shuttle bus between their hotel, your ceremony, and the reception venue. This is particularly important if you're hosting in areas with limited parking.
Host Your Engagement Party
If you’re planning an engagement party, host it 12 or 10 months before your wedding so you can enjoy it before wedding planning becomes too intense and time-consuming. While it allows you and your significant other to celebrate and mark the occasion with loved ones, it also allows your family and close friends to meet for the first time and offers the opportunity to catch up.
Take Your Engagement Photos
Not every couple chooses to take engagement photos, but it’s a great way to capture the moment. Many couples decide to take their engagement photos at their engagement party or arrange a photoshoot with a photographer. Plus, it allows you to scope out photographers that have caught your interest and secure a package deal.
9 Months To Go
Choose Your Wedding Invitations
Your invitations set the tone for your wedding, so start browsing styles, fonts and materials early. Do you prefer a minimalist design, or something ornate with calligraphy? Work with a wedding invitation designer to create your invitations. Be sure to add and proofread all the details before ordering them, including date, time, location, RSVP instructions, and dress code.
Buy Your Wedding Dress
Once you've found "the one", consider buying your wedding dress around 8-10 months before your wedding day. This ensures enough time for fittings and alterations later. Ensure you receive a detailed receipt and understand the boutique's policies on fittings and returns. Once you collect your gown, store it in a garment bag and hang it in a safe, dry place to maintain its pristine condition until the big day.
Book Ceremony Music
Whether you envision a string quartet, harpist, or a solo acoustic singer, secure your ceremony music early to bring your aisle moment to life. Consider the style of your venue and your taste as a couple when choosing ceremony musicians.
Plan Your Honeymoon
Organising your honeymoon is also part of the wedding planning process. If you and your fiancé dream of jetting off to the Maldives, taking a road trip around Europe or escaping to the Cotswolds, now is the time to research destinations, check passports and arrange visas if needed. It is also worth booking flights and accommodation before prices rise.
Top Tip:
Make sure your wedding shoes complement your wedding dress. For instance, delicate lace shoes might pair nicely with a lace dress, while a classic pump could work with various dress styles.
8 Months To Go
Choose Your Wedding Cake
What’s a wedding day without a cake? Research cake designers in your area, read reviews and visit websites or social media pages to see examples of their work. Schedule cake tastings and discuss design ideas and dietary requirements. For beautiful wedding cake inspiration and things to consider when choosing a cake, feel free to read our guide.
Create a Wedding Website
Nowadays, many couples create a wedding website as a cost-effective information hub for their guests. Wedding websites often feature venue details, maps, directions, nearby accommodation options, an RSVP system, gift registry links, photo galleries, contact details and more.
Select Your Wedding Florist
Book consultations and request quotes from different wedding florists to compare. Ideally, you should choose a florist who covers your venue’s area and one who has a strong reputation and portfolio. An experienced wedding florist should be able to work with you during a consultation to create gorgeous centrepieces, bridal bouquets and corsages that complement your chosen theme, colour scheme, venue's aesthetic, and budget. If you’re unsure about which types of flowers to incorporate into your special day, your florist will be able to advise you on blooms that are in season or which can help to create a picture-perfect day.
For wedding bouquet inspiration and tips on how to choose the perfect bridal bouquet, read our blog. Pinterest and Instagram can also provide beautiful inspiration, helping you to decide on your floral choices.
Order and Send Out Wedding Invitations
Gather the names and addresses of all your guests and order the number of invitations you need. Keep in mind the number of households rather than individual guests. Sending out your invitations early allows plenty of time for guests, especially international guests, to respond. Add the link to your wedding website if you have one. Also, keep your RSVP deadline around four weeks before the big day and be sure to include a self-addressed, pre-stamped envelope for guests to respond with.
Set Up a Wedding Registry
While wedding registries or gift lists are more associated with weddings in the US, some couples tend to set up a cash registry or honeymoon fund. If you and your fiancé are planning a wedding registry, now is the right time to set it up and fill it with gift ideas for your guests. Ideally, your wedding registry should be ready before you send out your invitations.
7 Months To Go
Shop For Bridesmaid Dresses
Make dress shopping a fun and collaborative experience by involving your bridesmaids in choosing styles that complement your wedding theme and make them feel confident. If you're ordering online, allow extra time for fittings and alterations. Don’t forget to plan for matching shoes and accessories too! Multiway dresses can be a brilliant option to consider as they’re flattering for every figure and also lets each bridesmaid wear a style that suits her best.
Buy or Hire the Groom’s Attire
Whether you’re buying a suit or hiring a tuxedo, it’s time to pick and order the groom’s attire. Think about the formality, venue style, colour scheme, and fit. Consider lighter fabrics for warmer months and formal tuxedos for classy evening ceremonies. If you’re opting for a bespoke suit, arranging a fitting as early as possible will allow for plenty of time for modifications and sourcing any additional fabric if needed.
Book Your Rehearsal Dinner
Although traditionally more common in the United States, rehearsal dinners are gradually gaining popularity in the UK. Many UK couples are choosing to host rehearsal dinners as an intimate gathering with close family and friends the night before the wedding. These events are often seen as a way to relax, celebrate, and ensure everything is coordinated before the big day. If you want to include a rehearsal dinner in your wedding preparations, consider securing a venue 6-7 months in advance. Consider a location that complements your wedding theme and is convenient for guests. Discuss menu options, seating arrangements, and other needs with the venue.
Meet With Your Florist
Discuss your vision and flower preferences for your bridal bouquet, bridesmaid bouquets, buttonholes, centrepieces, and other floral arrangements with your florist. Bring or save photos of floral arrangements or bouquets for inspiration. Ensure each flower arrangement aligns with your wedding theme and colour scheme. Pinterest can be a great source of inspiration, but it’s also important to ask to see examples of previous designs, too.
Order Rental Items
If you aren’t hiring a wedding venue stylist, now is the time to identify and reserve rental items such as tables, chairs, chair covers, linens, and draping. Coordinate with your venue to determine what's provided and what needs to be rented. Confirm delivery and pickup times, setup requirements, and any associated fees.
Hire a Photo Booth
A photo booth can add fun and engagement to your reception, providing guests with memorable keepsakes. Research photo booth hire companies, compare packages, and read customer reviews. Consider features like backdrops, props, and instant printouts. Ensure the photo booth's style aligns with your wedding theme.
6 Months To Go
Buy Your Bridal Accessories
Now that you’ve found the dress, it’s time for one of the most exciting parts - choosing the finishing touches! From sparkling jewellery to dreamy veils, elegant shoes to delicate hair accessories, take your time exploring different styles that reflect your look, theme, and personality. Whether you’re going for timeless or trend-setting, allow plenty of time (especially for custom pieces!) and enjoy every moment of styling your bridal look to perfection.
Buy Your Bridesmaid Accessories
Now is the perfect time to add a little sparkle to your bridal party! Coordinate with your bridesmaids to pick out accessories that enhance their dresses and show off their individual style. Think shoes, jewellery, hairpieces, or cute clutches. Sharing a colour palette or theme is helpful, but giving your girls some freedom ensures they feel confident and comfortable as they stand by your side on the big day.
Coordinate with the groomsmen's attire to discuss colour schemes and style with a suit rental shop. Decide if you want to rent or buy the groomsmen's suits or tuxedos. Keep your bridesmaid dress colours in mind when choosing a tie for a cohesive appearance. Traditionally, the groomsmen's suits are slightly different from the groom's suit, although they still complement one another.
Schedule Fittings for Your Bridesmaids and Groomsmen
Schedule dress and suit fittings for your bridesmaids and groomsmen. Allow enough time for necessary alterations. If the bridesmaid dresses need to be shortened, make sure the bridesmaids wear the shoes they plan on wearing on the day when the seamstress marks the garment.
5 Months To Go
Book Your Hairstylist & Makeup Artist
Research for hair stylists and makeup artists in your area by searching online, checking reviews and seeking recommendations. If you’re planning on getting ready for your wedding at the venue, look for a hair stylist and makeup artist who offers a mobile service and covers the area. Once you have found the right glam team, book a hair and makeup trial for 2 or 3 months before your wedding day.
Plan Your Menu
Work closely with your venue or caterer to design a menu that reflects your tastes and accommodates the dietary restrictions of your guests. Schedule a final menu tasting to confirm the dishes and drinks that will be served.
Purchase Other Outfits
While you have already picked your wedding dress, you may need to purchase additional outfits for pre-wedding and post-wedding events such as your hen party or bachelorette, rehearsal dinner, after-party, and honeymoon.
Finalise Your Honeymoon Plans
At this point in your wedding planning timeline, you should finalise your honeymoon plans. This includes booking flights, accommodation, and any activities, either online or with the help of a travel agent.
Start Premarital Counselling
Depending on where you’re married, you may need to attend premarital counselling before getting married. While it’s not necessary in the UK, these sessions allow you and your significant other to work with a counsellor to strengthen your relationship, address potential issues, and prepare for married life.
4 Months To Go
Attend Your Menu Tasting
Attend a tasting session with your venue or caterer to finalise the menu. Consider guest dietary needs and how the food complements the overall wedding experience. Don’t forget to sample the drinks too! Some couples bring their parents to the menu tasting for a second opinion.
Order Your Wedding Rings
As the wedding approaches, it’s time to pick your wedding rings. Allow plenty of time to find the right style, engrave them if desired, or get them resized. Before deciding on a yellow gold or platinum band, consider your lifestyle, budget, how the ring will fit, and whether you and your fiancé want matching or complementing rings. You may also want to consider the style and material of your engagement ring to achieve a matching set.
Buy Wedding Party Gifts
If you’re getting gifts for your significant other and your wedding party on your wedding day, think of gift ideas that are thoughtful, functional or personalised. Many couples decide not to exchange gifts and put these funds towards their honeymoon instead.
Create a Ceremony Program
If you wish to provide your guests with a ceremony program as you exchange your vows, try to submit your order early to avoid any delays. Think about your wedding invitations when discussing the design and the number of guests attending your ceremony. It’s worth ordering extra copies if needed, as they make for beautiful keepsakes after the wedding.
3 Months To Go
Start Writing Your Vows
If you and your significant other have opted to write your own vows, start thinking about tone, length and what points should be included. Start by jotting down your thoughts, personal stories or inside jokes. Couples often leave their vows until the last minute, so making a draft copy in advance allows you to finalise it later and mention important points that would otherwise be forgotten.
Attend Your Hair & Makeup Trial
Ensure your hairstylist and makeup artist match your vision by attending your bridal hair and makeup trial. Focus on clearly communicating your preferences and sharing photos for inspiration. If you’re unsure of how to style your hair, don’t be afraid to lean on your stylist for ideas and try out different options during your trial.
If you’re planning to wear a veil, earrings or hair accessories on the day, you should also bring them with you as these will influence your hairstyle on the day. Keep an eye on timings and factor in the time it takes for your wedding party to have their hair and makeup done.
Finalise Decor and Small Details
Decide on your table settings, signage, flower arrangements, lighting, and any other small details that bring your wedding to life and add a truly personal touch.
Organise Wedding Favours
If you and your fiancé decide to have wedding favours at your wedding, they can be organised once you have a good idea of the guest numbers. Many couples order personalised sweet bags, chocolates, biscuits or candles for the reception tables. Wedding favours are a great way to incorporate fun into your wedding day and can also be a great opportunity to inject your personality into the day.
Craft DIY Items
If you’re planning to include personal touches like handmade decorations or favours, start crafting these items early. DIY projects can add a personal feel to your wedding, but they can also be time-consuming.
Host Your Hen and Stag Parties
Most couples head off on their hen and stag parties around 3 months before their wedding. Whether you’re planning a relaxing weekend at a spa, a city break with lots of fun activities or going abroad, it is a great chance to take a break from wedding planning, create memories, and allow your family, wedding party, and friends to mingle before the big day.
2 Months To Go
Buy Bridal Undergarments
Select undergarments that provide comfort and support while complementing your dress's style. Consider options like strapless bras, shapewear, or seamless underwear.
Attend Your First Wedding Dress Fitting
Schedule your first dress fitting 2 to 3 months before the wedding. Remember to bring your chosen undergarments and shoes to ensure accurate alterations. Discuss any desired adjustments with the seamstress or dressmaker and schedule follow-up fittings as needed.
Send Out Your Rehearsal Dinner Invitations
Coordinate with your rehearsal dinner venue for a final head count and send out invitations to your rehearsal dinner guests, including your officiant. These can be separate invitations or included with your wedding invitations.
Choose Ceremony Readings
Select readings that resonate with your relationship or convey meaningful messages about love and marriage. These could be poems, religious texts or personal messages. Assign reading duties to close friends or family members. This is a great way to get other loved ones involved in your ceremony.
Meet With the Officiant
It’s crucial to meet with your officiant a few weeks before the big day to discuss the ceremony, finalise any details such as readings, ask questions and make adjustments. Make sure to mention any traditions or rituals that you would like to be included in the ceremony.
Allocate Other Wedding Roles
Decide on wedding roles and allocate tasks with family and friends. This is a great way to get other loved ones involved as part of your wedding day. Common wedding roles that need allocating include ushers, candle lighters and program attendants.
Purchase The Small Necessities
Think table cards, cake toppers, a guest book, ring boxes and personalised dress hangers; these are all examples of small items that need to be purchased leading up to your wedding day. Also, consider items for guests to use at the reception, such as flip-flops, sunglasses, deodorant, and plasters. Make a list of all these necessities to make sure nothing is forgotten.
1 Month To Go
Apply For Your Marriage License
Ensure you understand the legal requirements and deadlines for obtaining a marriage license in your area. For instance, couples in the UK must give notice of marriage at least 29 days before their ceremony. This usually involves both partners appearing in person at their local register office and signing a legal document. Once the notice of marriage is given, it’s valid for 12 months. Check for any specific documents and information needed before applying for a wedding license.
Attend Your Final Dress or Suit Fitting
It’s recommended that you have your final dress or suit fitting around 2 weeks before your wedding. This allows enough time for last-minute alterations if necessary and ensures your dress and suit fit perfectly on the day.
Choose Your Wedding Fragrance
Selecting a signature scent adds a memorable touch to your wedding day. Choose a fragrance that complements your personality and evokes positive emotions. Test the scent in advance to ensure it doesn’t cause skin irritation and lasts throughout the day. Having a wedding fragrance can transport you back to your wedding day in years to come.
Finalise Your Vows
Once you have written your vows, do a final review to ensure that you’re happy. Most couples have their vows printed out on paper, so be sure to do a final check beforehand. Once they are finalised and printed out, hand a copy to your officiant if needed.
Confirm All RVSPs
Do a final count of who is attending your wedding and reach out to those who have not responded to their wedding invitation yet.
Create a Seating Plan & Chart
Finalise your guest list and create your seating chart. Consider personalities, relationships, and flow, especially with family dynamics. Keep in mind the number of tables and the venue layout when doing a seating plan. You may wish to order a bespoke seating chart or you may want to create your own DIY sign. Try to keep the design of your invitations in mind when creating your seating chart. Finalise your seating chart after receiving all the RSVPs, and provide copies to the venue and caterer.
Check In With Suppliers
In the month leading up to the big day, ensure you touch base with all your suppliers to confirm timings, deliverables, and logistics. This is a good time to reconfirm everything, ensure there are no outstanding issues, and finalise any details. You can also use this as an opportunity to discuss the final payments.
Press and Steam Your Attire
Once you’ve collected your wedding dress, bridesmaid dresses and suits, have them pressed and steamed if needed to remove any fabric wrinkles and keep them looking pristine. You don’t want to look back on wedding photos and spot any hidden wrinkles!
Break In Your Wedding Shoes
Wear your wedding shoes for a few hours each day at home to break them in properly and prevent discomfort on the day. Consider heel stoppers if your venue is located outdoors or heel insoles if you experience foot discomfort or pain.
Put Together Gift Bags
If you’re planning on making gift bags for your gifts, you can put them together beforehand to minimise last-minute stress. Gift bags often include a note from the couple, small souvenirs or personalised items.
Order and Make Place Cards
Place cards guide guests to their assigned seats, avoiding confusion during the reception. Design place cards that complement your wedding theme and decor. Ensure names are spelt correctly. Consider DIY options for a personal touch or hire a calligrapher for precision.
Make Final Payments to Suppliers
Your suppliers may require the final payments a few weeks before your wedding. Keep track of invoices and ensure all outstanding payments are made. By paying suppliers in full beforehand, you won’t have to worry about it on your wedding day.
Finalise Your Song List
Collaborate with your DJ or band to finalise the song list covering all key moments, especially your entrance and first dance. Include a mix of genres that appeals to all age groups attending your wedding. Provide a "do not play" list to avoid unwanted tracks. A well-planned playlist keeps the dance floor lively and guests entertained.
Visit Your Venue
Arrange a final walkthrough of your venue with your maid of honour, wedding planner or coordinator. Discuss backup plans for weather-related issues if needed. A final visit to the venue before the big day allows for last-minute adjustments and provides an opportunity to go over the wedding day schedule with your wedding planner or coordinator.
Top Tip:
Don’t be afraid to delegate tasks. Lean on your partner, bridal party, family, or even a wedding planner to help ease the load.
1 Week Before The Wedding
Have Your Engagement Ring Cleaned
Before your wedding, make sure to get your engagement ring professionally cleaned to ensure it looks its best in photographs and videos. It’s best to do this as close to your wedding day as possible.
Make a Supplier Schedule
Create a detailed timeline and share it with suppliers, the venue, and your wedding party. Include setup times, transport, and who’s in charge of what. A supplier schedule prevents any confusion and ensures everything goes smoothly.
Give Your Venue a Final Head Count
Provide your venue and caterer with a final head count 1 to 2 weeks before the wedding. Accurate numbers are essential for seating arrangements, meal preparations, and staffing.
Put together envelopes for suppliers who provided exceptional service. Label each envelope clearly with the supplier’s name and role. Include a thank-you note expressing your appreciation. Assign a trusted individual to distribute the envelopes on your behalf during or after the wedding.
Do Any Last-Minute Tasks
During the final week, complete any last-minute tasks such as checking weather conditions (especially for outdoor weddings), rehearsing your vows or creating a wedding morning itinerary.
Attend Beauty Appointments
Any beauty appointments for your wedding should be scheduled one or two weeks before the day. When getting your nails, tan, or eyebrows done, don’t try anything too drastic or new, as it could cause unwanted irritation. Instead, stick to tried-and-true routines.
Start Packing Your Bags
Pack for your wedding night and the day after in advance to avoid the last-minute rush. Make sure you don’t forget essentials like phone chargers, legal documents, wedding bands, and prepare an emergency kit.
Create a Shot List for Your Photographer
Compile a list of must-have photos to guide your photographer. Discuss the list during a pre-wedding meeting. Include key moments like the first kiss, cake cutting, and family portraits. Share specific groupings and any unique shots you desire. A detailed shot list ensures a smooth transition between photos and ensures your most cherished memories are captured.
Top Tip:
Ask your photographer to take candid photos throughout your wedding day. Candid photos capture genuine moments and appear more natural than posed photos.
The Day Before Your Wedding
Start the Day Gently
The day before your wedding is finally here — and the excitement is real! Begin by eating something nourishing and staying well hydrated to keep your energy up for the big day ahead. Lay out everything you’ll need for the morning (your dress, accessories, overnight bag) so you can wake up feeling calm and organised.
Tie Up Loose Ends
Hand the rings to the best man for safekeeping, confirm any last-minute details, and take some well-earned time to unwind. Whether it’s a bubble bath, a peaceful walk, or just a few quiet minutes alone, do whatever helps you feel calm.
If you're having a rehearsal dinner, soak it in — it's a lovely opportunity to relax with your closest loved ones before the whirlwind begins. Use the day to drop off any final items at the venue, like decorations, favours, or your guestbook (with plenty of pens!), and check your bags into your accommodation so there’s nothing to worry about in the morning.
Rest Up
Most importantly, try to get a good night’s sleep — tomorrow is your day, and it’s going to be magical.
On Your Wedding Day
Your Wedding Day Is Here!
It’s finally here, your wedding day! After all the planning, list-making, and countdowns, it’s time to soak it all in and celebrate one of the most unforgettable moments of your life. Give yourself plenty of time to get ready in the morning, allowing space for laughter, nerves, and maybe even a few happy tears with your bridal party.
Thoughtful Moments to Start the Day
If you’ve planned gifts for your bridesmaids, groomsmen, or your partner, now is the perfect time to hand them over - it’s a lovely way to start the day with some heartfelt moments. And before heading to the ceremony, double check with the best man that the rings are safely in hand (trust us - it’s always worth a final check!).
Celebrate and Soak It All In
As the day unfolds, take time to thank your guests for being part of your celebration, whether it’s with a speech, a toast, or a quiet word during the reception.
Make Memories That Last Forever
Most of all, enjoy every single second, from walking down the aisle to dancing the night away. This is your moment, and the memories you make today will last a lifetime!
After Your Wedding
Congratulations - You’re Married!
Congratulations, you’re officially married! As the celebrations wind down and you prepare for your honeymoon, there are just a few final details to take care of.
Collect Keepsakes & Send Thank You Cards
Start by collecting any decorations, signage, or keepsakes from your venue, and return any hired outfits or rental items. It’s also time to share the love; you may wish to send out thank-you cards to your guests for their support and thoughtful gifts.
Take Care of Your Dress & Accessories
Have your wedding dress professionally cleaned and safely stored, especially if you want to preserve it as a keepsake or heirloom.
As you reflect on your special day, remember that this is just the beginning of your journey together. Hold onto the memories, lean on your support system, and take time to celebrate your new life as a married couple.
Checklist Written by Amy
We hope this checklist helps you feel prepared and inspired as you plan your special day. Wishing you a truly unforgettable wedding — and if you're looking for the perfect finishing touches, we're always here to help! Love Amy x
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